James Marshall – Dating Accelerator

Which to be brutally honest are just distraction strategies to ignore the cold, hard fact that most of their single life is spent, alone, frustrated and horny.

Last but not least is the guy who has retreated almost completely from women and dating. Faced with the prospect of having to take responsibility for meeting women, he’s decided to burrow down in a bunker, to hide away from the world and focus on his studies, career, or worse, video games…
hoping that one day the right girl will come along.

Starting to sound familiar?

I get it. After all, this whole puzzle of dating and meeting women can seem incredibly confusing.

It’s not like they taught it to you in school, and unless you had an alpha guy around to show you the ropes when you were growing up how were you supposed to figure it out?

As someone who has been through this phase, what I call ‘Beginner’s Hell’, I can tell you right away that unless you start taking responsibility and make something happen, it’s never going to change.

I can count on one hand the amount of times girls have asked me out on a date.

I don’t even need hands to count the amount of times I’ve had girls initiate sex with me.

The illusion that you either ‘have it’ or you don’t, that you’re either ‘good with women’ or a total lost case is just that: an illusion.

But right now, if you’ve just found out about seduction, you’re sitting somewhere in between. If you’ve never been coached by someone who knows what they’re doing, never taken a workshop and aren’t out approaching women every day, you’re in ‘Beginner’s Hell’.

This means that you’re convincing yourself that what you’re doing is working, when really it’s the seduction equivalent of running on a hamster wheel.

Waiting around and hoping that life will present you the perfect opportunity so you don’t have to try, don’t have to take any risks and most importantly…

You don’t have to get rejected.

You’re Not DOING ENOUGH TO FIX THIS

Maybe you occasionally stumble into a conversation with a girl at a bar, party, or even the odd cold approach on the street and it can be easy to think you’re getting somewhere. In truth that level of effort is like going to the gym and doing one bicep curl a week.